Top tips for young fussy eaters
Fussy eating is relatively common. Around half of young children will go through a fussy stage at some point. Fussy eating typically starts at around 18 months and peaks at 3 years of age. For parents and carers it can be quite a stressful time. The main worry is whether your child is getting enough nutrients. It is also frustrating to see all the food that is wasted! However, there is help at hand. It is important to remember that unless your child is not gaining weight or is losing weight, they are likely to be getting enough energy for growth. Poor dietary variety can in some cases lead to low micronutrient intakes, such as iron and zinc. Low intakes of dietary fibre can also lead to constipation. If you have a little fussy eater, there are lots of things you can try to get their eating back on track. Some of my top tips can be found below.
Why does it happen?
There are a few reasons why fussy eating can occur. It is a complex subject area and depends on the individual child. It can be due to genetic and/or environmental factors. For example, the social interactions during mealtimes and early experiences with different foods. However, there are lots of things you can do to help them overcome fussy eating and make this just a passing phase!
Here are some of Yummy Tummy Nutrition’s top tips for young fussy eaters;
- Eat together – try to make meals into social occasions. Eat at the table and offer the same foods to your child as you, and the rest of your family, are eating. Watching you, or other members of the family eat certain foods may encourage them to give them a go. It can be difficult to eat together as a family when we lead such busy lives. Just try to do it when you can (e.g. weekends or with one parent/carer present).
- Give your child attention when they try a food – not when they are refusing food. When they are flinging food from their tray or not wanting to try a food take a deep breath. Try to ride it out without comment. Relax and don’t get stressed about it. Mealtimes are supposed to be enjoyable!
- Remove any distractions during mealtimes such as television or toys. Young children can only focus on one thing at a time.
- Repeat offerings – if your child refuses a particular food, don’t avoid giving it to them again. It can take 10-15 times of being offered a food for a child to taste it and/or like it. Keep trying!
- Watch how much milk you are giving. Young children can fill up on milk if too much is given and then refuse meals.
For more fussy eating tips, meal ideas, appropriate portion sizes and the important food groups to include in your child’s diet get in touch. Join us at one of Yummy Tummy Nutrition’s workshops or schedule a 1-2-1 consultation.
As you child gets older (2+ years) there are other strategies which can help to manage fussy eating. An important one to note is to try not to use food as a reward or bribe.
It is common to hear ‘eat three more mouthfuls then you can have your pudding’. Or, ‘you can’t have pudding unless you eat your sandwich’. This can make a child think the main course is something horrible which must be endured to get to the yummy pudding. Instead, we want them to learn to enjoy all foods, including savoury foods.
Bribing children to do something can make those sweet treats seem so desirable. For example, ‘if you tidy up your toys you can have an ice-cream’. Instead, use non-food rewards such as stickers, activities or points to collect for pocket money or a toy.
Using food to soothe a crying child ‘here’s a biscuit to make it all better’ can mix up emotions with food preferences. Later in life this may become a problem. They could end up reaching for those sweet treats when they are feeling low (i.e. emotional eating).
Fussy eating is common in young children. It is a complex and highly individual behaviour but there are some general things you can try. Being mindful about your parent-child social interactions during mealtimes and sticking to a schedule may help. For older children, there are additional things you can try. Get in touch with Yummy Tummy Nutrition to get more personalised help with your little eater. Find out more about the nutrition workshops we offer.
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